While at one point on Tuesday I thought it was Friday, this week did fly by. I had a few zoom meetings to attend this week, so it was nice talking with other adults and kids! I have been flying through Chesapeake Shores on Hallmark and plugging along on White Fragility. I should be finished with it tonight. I am also working on finalizing my February intentions. Lots to do today!
Friday, January 29, 2021
Tuesday, January 26, 2021
Right now, I am currently on the third chapter of White Fragility by Robin Diangelo. Much like, Caste by Isabel Wilkerson, I find this is a must read. If you are truly interested in wondering why people say everyone has racist thoughts/ideas/beliefs when you feel you are 'the least racist' person you know, please try these books with an open mind. If you also do not understand when people say there is systematic racism in our country, please read these books with an open mind. It may hurt, you may be angry, but listen.
If you think "I don't see color," is a good thing to say. Please re-think that. Do you want people to look at you and not see what you are??? Do you get mad when people don't use your correct name? When you say you don't see someone as black, that is a HUGE part of themselves. That is how the world sees them, to ignore that, is to assume they float through life as easily as you do. THEY DO NOT.
One thing I read so far that stuck out to me, is that to spot racism may have been easier during Jim Crow because at least people were honest about their biases and dislike for black people. Now, people have entire conversations and do not use the word race, but people can know what they mean. But, they can turn around and say, 'oh, no that's not what we were talking about.' Just because you don't say the word!
There are a lot of well meaning people out there and I know people want to do the right thing. So to do the right thing, you need to get uncomfortable. When you know better, you do better.
Have you read this book? What are other books on race or class that you've read and recommend?
Friday, January 22, 2021
What a week. So so glad that inauguration is behind us and we can get back to the business of running a competent government. Also, I've gone 24 plus hours without hearing a certain someones name and it is GLORIOUS. So nice. So nice not to worry about what twitter shitstorm he will create while we sleep. So in book nerd news, I am coaching Battle of the Books for my oldest. And I have only heard back from two parents about potential times their child can meet over zoom. Whomp whomp. It stinks because I cannot go into the school so we have to do all of our meeting on zooms. And, since some kids are in a different class, THEY cannot get together in the school either. So many logistics to get around. But oh hey, parents respond to my email so we can get this show on the road!
My favorite pictures from the week:
Tuesday, January 19, 2021
The way that Adeline grins with her entire face and claps her hands and says “yaaaaay.” The way Adeline will point to the kitchen and I will say, do you need to nurse? And She will smile and go, “uh uh uh uh,” and then we will settle into my chair and nurse. The way she slides down off my lap when she’s done nursing and looks at me and waves and says, “bye bye.” Then I say, “do you need to take a rest,” and she will agree and I will carry her into her room to her sleep sack. She will wave to the room and say, “byeeee.” All the way to lay down. Then as I’m putting her window shade down she will snuggle in and make happy noises.
How she beats me up every time we nurse. Feet kicking my face, hands pulling my hair, and will yell if I'm trying to stop her.
The way she tips her head down when you are carrying her so her face is in your face and then will smile and say your name.
The way she will grab books and say , “boo boo.’ And how I can say, do you want me to read to you? Bring me a book and she will go across the room and bring me some books.
The way she plays in her kitchen and says , “mmmmm” as she cooks.
How excited she gets when she looks out the window and sees trees. She will point and say, “treeeeee.’
Also, her love of cheese.
The way she yells at our Roomba, “stteeeeeeeve,” whenever he is running or when she seems him in the corner.
The way she yells, “weeeeeeeeee” as she flies down the hill in her sled.
The way she lays down and is a completely dead weight model as you are trying to get her ready to go outside. Equally parts funny, helpful, and not helpful. She also removes her socks in about 2 seconds after they are on her feet.
The way she yells for her sister, “EYE YA, EYE YA, EE YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA”.
How excited she gets when she seems my mom and nestles into her.
The way she waves at people on the TV because she thinks it’s a zoom call and they can talk back.
Her love of music.
The way she listens intently.
The way she grabs your face and then hugs you with her arms around you tight.
The way she calls me, “mum, mum.”
Tuesday, January 12, 2021
Time for my 2020 Reading Recap. This may be slightly inaccurate as it is based upon my faulty sleep deprived memory!
How many fiction and non-fiction? 8 non-fiction, which was 3 more than last year. My favorite non-fiction I read was Caste: The Origins of our Discontent by Isabel Wilkerson. I’ve been recommending this book to EVERYONE. 73 fiction books and out of those I have recommended Mrs. Everything by Jennifer Weiner to many people!
Male/Female author ratio? 62 women (a few repeats), 12 men, and 1 that uses they/them pronouns. Some authors I really enjoyed this year are Jason Reynolds, Dan Gemeinhart, Ruth Ware, and Jenny Han.
Which author was new to you in 2019 that you now want to read the entire works of? Ruth Ware or Helen Hoang.
Favorite book read in 2019? Besides the two I mentioned before I also really enjoyed The Parker Inheritance, The Remarkable Journey of Coyote Sunrise, Felix Ever After, The Kiss Quotient, Anxious People, To All the Boys I’ve Loved Before, The Giver of Stars, Burn Baby Burn, The Bookish Life of Nina Hill and The Hate U Give.
Least favorite? Probably Murder at the Vicarage by Agatha Christie or November Road by Lou Berney
Any that you simply couldn’t finish and why? I think the only one I didn’t finish was Escape from Mr. Lemoncello’s Library. The 9 year old and I started it together and then she finished it by herself and I meant to finish it and I never got back to it. We own it, but I do plan on getting to it!
How many pages did you read? 26,152
How many books from the library? 64! Which is 11 more than last year. I’ve really utilized our library, especially since they finally eliminated late fees and no fees to reserve books!
How many books read did I purchase? I think 6 of these, not all last year. I bought a TON of books, but mostly for the girls and gifts.
How many were gifts? 3 I think.
How many borrowed from others? I borrowed one from my mom.
How many were given to me for reviews? 3 and I won one of the books I read in a goodreads giveaway.
How many books read on kindle? The Great Alone by Kristin Hannah.
Any re-reads? Saving CeeCee Honeycutt. My book club picked it and it was one of my favorites from when I read it.
Which countries did you go to through the page in your year of reading? United States, England, Ireland, Nigeria, France, Sweden, Iceland, Qatar, Germany, Australia, and Pakistan.
What states did you go through the page in your year of reading? New York, Michigan, Alaska, Massachusetts, Pennsylvania, West Virginia Georgia, Minnesota, Ohio, Alabama, Washington D.C. (calling it a state), South Carolina, Maine, Tennessee, Idaho, California, Oklahoma, Texas, Nevada, New Jersey, North Carolina, Mississippi, Virginia, and Louisiana.
Which book wouldn’t you have read without someone’s specific recommendation? The Butterfly Garden, The Remarkable Journey of Coyote Sunrise, and The Parker Inheritance.
Which author did you read the most of? 3, Charlaine Harris, 2 Susan Boyers, 2 Patricia Harman, 2 Linda Castillo, and 2 Nic Stone.
What was your best reading month? September. I read 11 books then.
What was your worst reading month? May, I only read 2 books.
to average about 8 per month for the most part.
Top Ten Reading Moments of 2020
- Having the 9 year old recommend books for me to read.
- Reading on the porch.
- Reading with both of my girls.
- Talking about books with the 9 year old.
- Discussing Educated with Book Club.
- Making the cookie recipe in the Chocolate Chip Cookie Murder book
- Discussing Amal Unbound with the nine year old
- Reading my first graphic novel
- Reserving books through my libraries pick up with NO CHARGE!!! (Big deal because it used to be 25 cents per hold!!!)
- Have the one year old sing and dance to Down by the Bay 243434234 times
2020 Reading Goals - Revisited
Read 60 books. – Success! I read 81.
2. Read more books from my shelf and clear them out. – This did not go so well. With the ease of curbside pick ups and not charging for library holds, I read a TON of library books this year.
3. Write more about what I read. – FAIL. FAIL FAIL FAIL. I blame lack of sleep, a baby, and the pandemic. Whoops.
1. Read 60 Books
2. Read 12 books from my shelves.
3. Read 12 books that my friends have read.
4. Read a biography of a president or first lady.
5. Use Book Riot’s Read Harder challenge as a way to find books to read when I need one.
How many books did you read this year? Did you complete your 2020 reading goals? What are your goals for 2020? Which author did you read the most of? What was your most recommended book? What book do I NEED to read in 2021?
Wednesday, January 6, 2021
After the dumpster fire that has been 2020 and the political dumpster fire of the last four years, I'm ready for a reset. I am taking January 2021 has a new beginning, probably followed by a lot of new beginnings after that but I needed a push and January 1st was the push.
I am breaking down some intentions I have for January.
The biggest that is taking the most effort is healthier choices time. My intention for January is to drink 100 ounces of water a day and hit 10,000 steps a day. So far I've checked that off every day. I am keeping accountable to myself by recording in Fitbit and posting my completed steps on insta.
Reading wise I went through the year and put down some books that I want to complete during certain months, but with the caveat that if I get to them sooner, that's great, I just needed to work on clearing off some already purchased books and already chosen book club books.
For January, I need to complete Silent Sister by Diane Chamberlin, White Fragility, Nobody Will You This But Me (library dependent) and My life as Villainous by Laura Lippman.
I also have a list that I'm tackling throughout the year and my first big project on there was locating a spot for my file cabinet that was homeless for a year and going through boxes in our storage area to throwing stuff away. This I have started.
I am also back to meal planning on a monthly basis.
Here is what I have for this week.
4 Stuffed Pepper Casserole, salad
5 Chicken Fajitas, guacamole/chips, pineapple
6 eggs, bacon, baked potatoes, oranges, broccoli
7 orange chicken (Costco), broccoli
8 pizza (takeout)
We usually decide weekend meals on the fly. We have a freezer in the basement full of stuff and my husband usually cooks on the weekend, which equals steak or beef something!
Do you have any intentions for January? How are you keeping yourself accountable?
Tuesday, January 5, 2021
I first came across this book meme in 2018 and decided to play along! Feel free to do so yourself!Describe yourself: The Searcher
How do you feel? Mrs. Everything
Describe where you currently live: Snow Blind
If you could go anywhere...? Butterfly Bayou
Favorite form of transportation: Silver Sparrow
Your best friend is: The Last Mrs. Parrish
You and your friends are: The Mothers
What's the weather like? Ask Again, Yes
Your favorite time of day is: Stargazing
What is life for you? Everything Beautiful in It's Time
You fear: Burn Baby Burn
Best advice: Look Both Ways
Thought for the day: Look Alive Twenty-Five
How you would like to die: Educated
If you don't want to do the whole list, please humor me with the following... You and your friends are? How do you feel ? Best advice?